I know it's sound silly but I really excited when its come to beautiful date like today 18/8/2018. Normally every beautiful date i'd done something to make it memorable. I know its random but lets post something today!
Relationship Advice
If someone wants to spend time with you, they will make time for you.
“If someone wants to spend time with you, they will make time for you.”
Don’t fall in love with someone’s potential.
“This is what I came here to say. Don’t fall in love with someone’s potential. Don’t have a list of things in your head that ‘when they grow up and start to do these things THEN I can be happy.’ Go on what they’re like right now and cut short any fantasies or plans to encourage them to change.”
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Pay attention to actions and patterns of behavior. He may insist that he loves you, that he cares about you, that he respects you. He may feel something very strongly for you, and he may truly believe what he’s saying. If the way he treats you isn’t loving, or if it’s careless or disrespectful, walk away.
Hold out for someone who consistently treats you well.
Be an adult about your feelings, good or bad.
"Be an adult about your feelings, good or bad. Playing cute at this stage isn’t really being honest with yourself or the other person. Don’t gloss over things that make you mad or irritated or hurt because they build and turn something minor into a huge wall to get over.”
If someone shows you that they don’t want you, just walk away.
“If someone shows you that they don’t want you, just walk away. Don’t cling, or freak out, or try to make them see how awesome you are; they don’t and they won’t. Keep your dignity and use that energy for something, or someone else.”
Never make someone a priority in your life when you are just an option.
“Never make someone a priority in your life when you are just an option. If he cheats on you, leave them. They may promise up and down it was a mistake, more often than not it is some indication of their quality as a person, and how much they respect you.”
Don’t move too fast.
“Don’t move too fast. Experience your relationship and allow time to show you who your chosen one really is. About 90% of my friends who married before one year of knowing someone are divorced now; just food for thought.”
Don’t compare your timeline to anyone else’s.
“Don’t compare your timeline to anyone else’s. Don’t feel like you’re missing out on something because all of your friends are getting married or having babies before you. Also you are so much younger than you think you are.”
Be with someone whom you love and respect.
“Don’t stay with someone just because they are good at being a boyfriend and do all the nice boyfriend duties—be with someone whom you love and respect.
On the flip side, don’t date someone who is dreamy and charming who sucks at doing the boyfriend things—be with someone who loves and respects you.”
Live your life. Be your best self. Grow as a person and work on self-improving. Make that your focus. Once all of this is in place or in progress, relationships will become easier and finding a partner will become easier. You will also attract better people.
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